Thursday, February 10, 2011

Sex compliments of a meal.

Those of you who know me know that I am a foodie at heart and obviously,  I love good sex. I thought, why not incorporate some aphrodisiac foods into a dinner and feed it to my valentine! This way I will make a meal that will be delicious and guarantee me sex from my unknown valentine. After dinner I bet the dessert will be well worth it.

If you got any crazy recipes pass them on. I would love to share and try myself.

Here is a list of foods that can be incorporated into almost any meal. Try them out,  you know the saying the way to a mans heart........ we're just giving this man a little help [wink-wink].

The Aphrodisiac list
  • Almond

    A symbol of fertility throughout the ages. The aroma is thought to induce passion in a female. Try serving Marzipan (almond paste) in the shapes of fruits for a special after-dinner treat. 
  • Aniseed

    A very popular aphrodisiac with many culinary uses. It has been used as an aphrodisiac since the Greeks and the Romans, who believed aniseed had special powers. Sucking on the seeds is said to increases your desire.
  • Arugula

    Arugula or "rocket" seed has been documented as an aphrodisiac since the first century A.D.  This ingredient was added to grated orchid bulbs and parsnips and also combined with pine nuts and pistachios. Arugula greens are frequently used in salads and pasta.
  • Asafetida

    Any Indian dried, powedere herb used as a sexual stimulant in Ayurvedic medicine.  The herb has a very strong, garlicy flavor.
  • Asparagus

    Given it's phallic shape, asparagus is frequently enjoyed as an aphrodisiac food.   Feed your lover boiled or steamed spears for a sensuous experience. The Vegetarian Society suggests "eating asparagus for three days for the most powerful affect".
  • Avocado

    The Aztecs called the avocado tree "Ahuacuatl which translated means "testicle tree". The ancients thought the fruit hanging in pairs on the tree resembled the male's testicles. This is a delicious fruit with a sensuous texture. Serve in slices with a small amount of Balsamic vinegar and freshly ground pepper.
  • Bananas

    The banana flower has a marvelous phallic shape and is partially responsible for popularity of the banana as an aphrodisiac food. An Islamic myth tells the tale that after Adam and Eve succumbed to the "Apple" they started covering their "nudity" with banana leaves rather than fig. From a more practical standpoint bananas are rich in potassium and B vitamins, necessities for sex hormone production.
  • Basil (sweet basil)

    Is said to stimulate the sex drive and boost fertility. It is also said to produce a general sense of well being for body and mind. 
  • Broccoli Rabe (And Other Mustard Greens)

    The ground seeds of various plants in the brassica family were believed to increase virility. In the case of broccoli rabe its more likely a myth created to get people to eat this bitter vegetable.
  • Chocolate

    The Aztecs referred to chocolate "nourishment of the Gods". Chocolate contains chemicals thought to effect neurotransmitters in the brain and a related substance to caffeine called theobromine. Chocolate contains more antioxidant (cancer preventing enzymes) than does red wine.  The secret for passion is to combine the two.  Try a glass of Cabernet with a bit of dark chocolate for a sensuous treat or let us temp you with our recipe for Chocolate Espresso Pots de creme.
  • Carrots

    Another good reason to eat carrots--believed to be a stimulant to the male. The phallus shaped carrot has been associated with stimulation since ancient times and was used by early Middle Eastern royalty to aid seduction. High vitamins and beta-carotene. Perhaps a justification for a piece of carrot cake?
  • Coffee

    Caffeine is a well-know stimulant but remember, too much and it becomes a depressant.   Serve small amounts of rich dark coffee in special little demitasse cups.   Coffee stimulates both the body and the mind so partake of a little in preparation for an "all-nighter".
  • Coriander (Cilantro seed)

    The book of The Arabian nights tells a tale of a merchant who had been childless for 40 years and but was cured by a concoction that included coriander. That book is over 1000 years old so the history of coriander as an aphrodisiac dates back far into history. Cilantro was also know to be used as an "appetite" stimulant.
  • Fennel

    In the 1930's fennel was found to be a source of natural plant estrogens. Use of fennel as an aphrodisiac dates back to the Egyptian times where it was used as "libido enhancement".
  • Figs

    An open fig is thought to emulate the female sex organs and traditionally thought of as sexual stimulant. A man breaking open a fig and eating it in front of his lover is a powerful erotic act. Serve fresh Black Mission figs in a cool bowl of water as it is done in Italy and be sure to eat with your fingers!
  • Garlic

    The 'heat' in garlic is said to stir sexual desires. Make sure you and your partner share it together. Garlic has been used for centuries to cure everything from the common cold to heart ailments. This is a good time for moderation. Enjoy a pasta with a lightly garlicky sauce and it and lead up to something spicy in the bedroom later.
  • Ginger

    Ginger root raw, cooked or crystallized is a stimulant to the circulatory system. Perhaps a stir-fry with freshly grated ginger can stir something spicy up in the bedroom later.
  • Honey

    Many medicines in Egyptian times were based on honey including cures for sterility and impotence. Medieval seducers plied their partners with Mead, a fermented drink made from honey. Lovers on their "Honeymoon" drank mead and it was thought to "sweeten" the marriage.
  • Liquorice (licorice)

    The Chinese have used licorice for medicinal purposes since ancient times. The essence of the Glycyrrhiza glabra (licorice) plan, glycrrhizin, is 50 time sweeter than sugar. Chewing on bits of licorice root is said to enhance love and lust. It is particularly stimulating to woman.
  • Mustard

    Believed to stimulate the sexual glands and increase desire. Prepare a tenderloin roast (filet mignon) for two with a mustard and peppercorn sauce.
  • Nutmeg

    Nutmeg was highly prized by Chinese women as an aphrodisiac. In quantity nutmeg can produce a hallucinogenic effect. A light sprinkling of the spice in a warm pumpkin soup can help spice up your evening.
  • Oysters

    Oysters were documented as a aphrodisiac food by the Romans in the second century A.D as mentioned in a satire by Juvenal. He described the wanton ways of women after ingesting wine and eating "giant oysters". An additional hypotheses is that the oyster resembles the "female" genitals. In reality oysters are a very nutritious and high in protein.
  • Pine Nuts

    Zinc is a key mineral necessary to maintain male potency and pine nuts are rich in zinc. Pine nuts have been used to stimulate the libido as far back as Medieval times. Serve pine nut cookies with a dark espresso for a stimulating dessert.
  • Pineapple

    Rich in vitamin C and and is used in the homeopathic treatment for impotence. Add a spear to a sweet Rum drink for a tasty prelude to an evening of passion.
  • Raspberries and Strawberries

    Perfect foods for hand feeding your lover. "Both invite love and are described in erotic literature as fruit nipples" Both are high in vitamin C and make a sweet light dessert.
  • Truffles

    The Greeks and the Romans considered the rare Truffle to be an aphrodisiac. The musky scent is said to stimulate and sensitize the skin to touch.
  • Vanilla

    The scent and flavor of vanilla is believed to increase lust. According to the Australian Orchid Society, "Old Totonac lore has it that Xanat, the young daughter of the Mexican fertility goddess, loved a Totonac youth. Unable to marry him due to her divine nature, she transformed herself into a plant that would provide pleasure and happiness." Fill tall Champagne glasses to the rim and add a vanilla bean for a heady, bubbly treat.
  • Wine

    A glass or two of wine can greatly enhance a romantic interlude. Wine relaxes and helps to stimulate our senses. Drinking wine can be an erotic experience. Let your eyes feast on the color of the liquid. Caress the glass, savor the taste on your lips. Do remember that excessive alcohol will make you too drowsy for the after-dinner romance. A moderate amount of wine has been said to "arouse" but much more than that amount with have the reverse affect. 


I have the meal.  It's simple and incorporates some items from this list.
Aniseed baked chicken with herb basmati rice and garlic with honey roasted string beans. Yumm yumm good!
Now all I need is the 'Valentine'...... No problem.

Use these foods with caution as certain items may make your partner taste bad for Oral sex. But if you want to do more than just traditional sex and the ingredients are a must for your recipe, make sure that you have oral sex shortly (within a few hours) after the meal.
Enjoy!

For more on these foods check out the link: Aphrodisiac Foods

Yummygirl '11

Friday, January 21, 2011

A Woman Should Always End Up On Top

I like being in control. Even if I don't start out on top, I always end up on top. Not only in my career but in my sexual life too. I love it! So for all the ladies who always end up on top, whom I call, with affirmation, the 'Boss' Ladies, check out these on top positions that ensure you will ALWAYS be a winner in the end.







..........So far Hot Hula is my Fav!

-The YummyGirl '11

Wednesday, January 19, 2011

Unusual Hot Spots-Erogenous Zones

I remember, dating this guy who would rub his nipples near my face when we first started having sex, [lol].  I would wonder why not just say that you like your nipples sucked? But at that point in my sexual life it didn't make a difference.  I was all about just kissing the lips, sucking the neck and the Pness [period].  I came to realize later that there was more to making him not just cum, but have phenomenal whole body orgasms, which included sucking [his] nipples and other things.


I learned that if you want your man to CUM, then simply pay attention to the usual erogenous zone, His Pness Head. This is the pinnacle of stimulation for a man. The Pness (glans) head is the mushroom shaped mass at the top of a man's Pness. This is the most sensitive part of his body and concentrating on it is the easiest way to get him off. 


BUT, if you want your man to have an ALL OVER ORGASM, [not just cumming] that sends waves of pleasure surging through his entire body, don't forget to pay attention to and incorporate his other erogenous zones, which I call, 'Unusual Hot Spots' into the sexual episode. 


Most men I've been with, hardly say what turns them on in the beginning. Maybe they just don't know or it may simply be a test to see what the woman's working with. Who knows? Anyway, I have decided to eliminate the guess work for the novice.  So in case you are left to figure his 'things' out in the beginning of your sexual relationship, like I have been, you should at least know what areas to explore which will increase his libido and aid in him getting a full body orgasm. Some of these areas he may not even realize that he has.


So, during foreplay and in combination with oral and traditional (vaginal penetration) sex, lick, squeeze, bite, massage or fondle these spots and see what happens!


Erogenous Zones
  
His Scalp can be very sensitive to stimulation as it is packed with rich nerve endings that respond surprisingly well to touch and since he's probably not expecting you to give any attention to it, surprise him.  Run your fingers through his hair to get him interested. If he has a baldy or an extremely low cut, give him a soothing scalp massage (you can use essential oil). Scalp massages are extremely relaxing and at times extremely seductive.


His Ears are a nerve hothouse which makes them ultra sensitive to your touch. Use your fingers and thumb to massage the outer ears using firm, slow movements.  Use your mouth (tongue and lips) on the earlobes and areas behind the ear. Blow lightly sometimes. Don't be shy about making seductive noises while your mouth lingers there. It's a huge turn-on for most men.

His Lips-Men can easily get aroused from kissing. Lips are sensitive. Explore differing kissing techniques to change things up. The more you kiss the better. Kissing starts his mind fantasizing.  To a man kissing implies there is (probably) more "good stuff" ahead.


His Neck is always a great place to turn your partner on. Suck gently or you'll give hickeys and they are so '80's and out of style.  Make sure your lips are super soft and moist when you kiss his neck.  Slobber kisses are not sexy! Tug and nibble his neck lightly. Pay attention to the areas under/behind the ears as they are extra sensitive to stimulation. Always start off slowly and teasing, as he gets into it, slowly go harder and wilder. It will wake up his sexual beast.

His Nipples are filled with nerve endings and are highly sensitive.  They should be sucked and nibbled on. Make sure to start out slow and work up to harder techniques. Pay attention and communicate as some partners have a lower pain threshold than others.

His Armpits have thousands of nerve endings.  The same area that is ticklish to most can awaken sexual desire as well; depending on the depth and strength of your touch. Make sure to caress sexually (using, fingers, feathers, tongue, etc.) and gently this area and it will turn his attention towards sexual anticipation.

Belly Button (and below)- you ever notice when you message your belly button you want to pee? imagine how you can use that sensation during the height of sex and foreplay.

Small of His Back is full of touch receptors.  Stroking the small of the back elicits that warm and fuzzy feeling. Make sure to caress the small of his back softly in a suggestively seductive way.

Back of knees and inside of elbows the layer of skin covering the inside of the elbows and the back of knees are sensitive to touch. A little caressing of these areas with your fingertips is all you'll need to arouse his interest.

The Perineum (located between the scrotum and the anus) has lots of nerve endings. Gently stroke and fondle this sensitive area of skin and it will gain his undivided attention. You may also want to try vigorously massaging the perineum just before his orgasm; this is known to give many men a rush of pleasure.

The Sacrum (the bone at the base of your spine) use light circular motions here pre and post orgasm. This area is extremely sensitive. Simulating this area is extremely pleasing to most men.

His Anus is very sensitive because of  the large number of nerve endings surrounding it. Gently stroke this area for stimulation to heighten pleasure.

His Inner Thighs don’t get touched much- EVER. It's so close to the Pness any touch by you will suggest the desire or wanting sex which all men love. So every sexual caress you do will feel good.

Use this blueprint wisely. But DON'T explore all of them at same time. You'll seem all over the place like you don't know what you're doing-trust me [lol].  Pay attention to how your partner reacts to different combinations and take it from there.

Be aware, all the erogenous zones listed are tangible but none are as powerful as the mind of your partner. Once you engage his mind into desiring only to have sex with you and how wonderful it will be especially when waiting in anticipation,  you're a winner!

Happy exploring!
-The Yummygirl '11

Saturday, January 15, 2011

Numerical Sex Positions-For My Math Sex Freaks

I found this hilarious! I figured out the second to last one.

The square root of 8 is three some(thing)).
Just like the square root of 69 is 8 some(thing)-Thanks to Drake.

But I can't figure the last one.
My math sex freaks, help me out. What does- [ln(2(3.14))] mean?



The YummyGirl '11