I remember, dating this guy who would rub his nipples near my face when we first started having sex, [lol]. I would wonder why not just say that you like your nipples sucked? But at that point in my sexual life it didn't make a difference. I was all about just kissing the lips, sucking the neck and the Pness [period]. I came to realize later that there was more to making him not just cum, but have phenomenal whole body orgasms, which included sucking [his] nipples and other things.
I learned that if you want your man to CUM, then simply pay attention to the usual erogenous zone, His Pness Head. This is the pinnacle of stimulation for a man. The Pness (glans) head is the mushroom shaped mass at the top of a man's Pness. This is the most sensitive part of his body and concentrating on it is the easiest way to get him off.
BUT, if you want your man to have an ALL OVER ORGASM, [not just cumming] that sends waves of pleasure surging through his entire body, don't forget to pay attention to and incorporate his other erogenous zones, which I call, 'Unusual Hot Spots' into the sexual episode.
Most men I've been with, hardly say what turns them on in the beginning. Maybe they just don't know or it may simply be a test to see what the woman's working with. Who knows? Anyway, I have decided to eliminate the guess work for the novice. So in case you are left to figure his 'things' out in the beginning of your sexual relationship, like I have been, you should at least know what areas to explore which will increase his libido and aid in him getting a full body orgasm. Some of these areas he may not even realize that he has.
So, during foreplay and in combination with oral and traditional (vaginal penetration) sex, lick, squeeze, bite, massage or fondle these spots and see what happens!
Erogenous Zones
His Scalp can be very sensitive to stimulation as it is packed with rich nerve endings that respond surprisingly well to touch and since he's probably not expecting you to give any attention to it, surprise him. Run your fingers through his hair to get him interested. If he has a baldy or an extremely low cut, give him a soothing scalp massage (you can use essential oil). Scalp massages are extremely relaxing and at times extremely seductive.
His Ears are a nerve hothouse which makes them ultra sensitive to your touch. Use your fingers and thumb to massage the outer ears using firm, slow movements. Use your mouth (tongue and lips) on the earlobes and areas behind the ear. Blow lightly sometimes. Don't be shy about making seductive noises while your mouth lingers there. It's a huge turn-on for most men.
His Lips-Men can easily get aroused from kissing. Lips are sensitive. Explore differing kissing techniques to change things up. The more you kiss the better. Kissing starts his mind fantasizing. To a man kissing implies there is (probably) more "good stuff" ahead.
His Neck is always a great place to turn your partner on. Suck gently or you'll give hickeys and they are so '80's and out of style. Make sure your lips are super soft and moist when you kiss his neck. Slobber kisses are not sexy! Tug and nibble his neck lightly. Pay attention to the areas under/behind the ears as they are extra sensitive to stimulation. Always start off slowly and teasing, as he gets into it, slowly go harder and wilder. It will wake up his sexual beast.
His Nipples are filled with nerve endings and are highly sensitive. They should be sucked and nibbled on. Make sure to start out slow and work up to harder techniques. Pay attention and communicate as some partners have a lower pain threshold than others.
His Armpits have thousands of nerve endings. The same area that is ticklish to most can awaken sexual desire as well; depending on the depth and strength of your touch. Make sure to caress sexually (using, fingers, feathers, tongue, etc.) and gently this area and it will turn his attention towards sexual anticipation.
Belly Button (and below)- you ever notice when you message your belly button you want to pee? imagine how you can use that sensation during the height of sex and foreplay.
Small of His Back is full of touch receptors. Stroking the small of the back elicits that warm and fuzzy feeling. Make sure to caress the small of his back softly in a suggestively seductive way.
Back of knees and inside of elbows the layer of skin covering the inside of the elbows and the back of knees are sensitive to touch. A little caressing of these areas with your fingertips is all you'll need to arouse his interest.
The Perineum (located between the scrotum and the anus) has lots of nerve endings. Gently stroke and fondle this sensitive area of skin and it will gain his undivided attention. You may also want to try vigorously massaging the perineum just before his orgasm; this is known to give many men a rush of pleasure.
The Sacrum (the bone at the base of your spine) use light circular motions here pre and post orgasm. This area is extremely sensitive. Simulating this area is extremely pleasing to most men.
His Anus is very sensitive because of the large number of nerve endings surrounding it. Gently stroke this area for stimulation to heighten pleasure.
His Inner Thighs don’t get touched much- EVER. It's so close to the Pness any touch by you will suggest the desire or wanting sex which all men love. So every sexual caress you do will feel good.
Use this blueprint wisely. But DON'T explore all of them at same time. You'll seem all over the place like you don't know what you're doing-trust me [lol]. Pay attention to how your partner reacts to different combinations and take it from there.
Be aware, all the erogenous zones listed are tangible but none are as powerful as the mind of your partner. Once you engage his mind into desiring only to have sex with you and how wonderful it will be especially when waiting in anticipation, you're a winner!
Happy exploring!
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