Better Sex From Good Money Management for the New Year

I was thumbing through one of my old magazines as I was cleaning and getting ready for the New Year and I stumbled upon this chart.  Which made me think of how it could help improve a woman's sex life.


[I know.] You must be thinking- 'Huh? How the hell can this chart help improve MY sex life?'

Well, have you ever had sex and your mind wanders to things you need to take care of, like a bill that needs to be paid?
Research has shown that [money] financial problems is a 'stresser' in almost any relationship, whether the relationship is with someone you're just dating or your spouse.  Financial problems can affect your sex drive and the growth of your relationship.

As women we are hardwired to constantly think ahead (and connect or fix everything unlike our male predatory and compartmentalizing counter parts) and rarely do we live in the sexual moment for long (we easily get distracted).  Once the distraction comes, then the disconnect from your partner happens.  This, most times, can be interpreted as you being disinterested during sex, which potentially causes conflict is an otherwise good, in the broad scope of things, relationship.

You know a clear mind lends itself to better sex and better orgasms. With one less thing to worry about when you lay down to make love with your partner,  the possibilities of a wonderful (s)experience increases.

So use this chart as a guideline to help you put your finances in the right order and on the right track (alter as needed) for the New Year.  This way you won't have to worry about finances as much in 2011, especially during sex.

Cheers to you and a Happy New Year filled with great-Mind-Blowing-Sex and good money management!

-The Chart was taken from Essence Magazine January '08 Issue.

-The YummyGirl '10